WIBTA for telling my husband I do not intend to lose weight me ubmitted 4 month Some background my weight has been an issue in our marriage for years. I've gained over 150 Ibs since we were married 27 years ago most of it after I broke my foot exercise diminished and went through menopause, with the resulting drop in metabolism. I had bariatric surgery which didn't work well for me and I've stabilized at my current weight, still about 100 Ibs over what I was when we met. My husband has been depressed for the past couple of years. I've encouraged him to seek help, but he refuses. He says that it's from worrying about my weight. He says he loves me, and he can not stand the thought of living without me. Since his pleas for me to lose weight earlier in our marriage was about how he's not as a