Girlfriend is overweight, and I'm unhappy in the relationship because of it ast edited 10 years ago by tothe relat bmit ast edited 10 years ago by tothe We've been together for 7 years, she's just started her last year of university, but while she's been there she has put on a huge amount of weight over 120Ibs . She's no longer just overweight, she is actually obese. I did notice it happening, I was okay with that, and we talked about it. She agreed, said she would try to lose the weight, but then she'd go back to university and I wouldn't see her too often, then she'd put even more weight on. Now she's over 250Ibs used to be 135lbs when we first got together and I'm no longer attracted to her physically. I haven't told her this. She's extremely sensitive about the issue, and tells me I sh